Purposeless Passion
What is the thing you are most passionate about? Your family? Your job? One of your hobbies? Think about it this way- small talk tends to bring out our passion, right? Your favorite sport, your occupation, your favorite team, favorite TV show, favorite movies, etc.- these are the things we talk about to try and find a point of connection. We also choose these options because they are safe. Yeah, someone might mock you for one of those choices, but it's a lot safer to be a known geeky nerd than have something that is part of our core identity hurt! Why is that? Because we've learned the art of passionate superficiality to avoid deep pain! Most of us can attest to being hurt when our true selves have been on display. Someone betrayed our trust & we placed our true self behind protective barriers (whether we recognize them as such or not) to ensure we aren't hurt that way again. After so many times of being hurt and walling ourselves off, it becomes hard to ever shar...