Upside Down Kingdom: The Upside Down Response
What Does Jesus Say About Getting Even? Lessons from Matthew 5 on Rights, Retaliation, and Kingdom Freedom Most of us have replayed an argument in our heads long after it ended. We rehearse what we wish we had said, imagine the apology we never received, and carry the weight of an offense the other person has probably forgotten. Jesus speaks directly into that place in Matthew 5:38-42, and what He says is not easy to hear. Why Do We Keep Replaying Old Offenses? When we replay arguments and rehearse old wounds, we are usually not just looking for justice. We are looking for vindication. We want to hear someone say we were right, or at minimum, admit they were wrong. We want repayment. That desire often surfaces in a familiar phrase: "I had every right." Maybe the argument is years old. Maybe the relationship has moved on. But somehow, the offense is still fresh. Jesus addresses this directly in the Sermon on the Mount, and His diagnosis is the same as it has been th...